Author: Bruce Pagano II (Page 23 of 51)

Bruce Pagano is a blogger and podcaster living in the Treasure Valley area of Idaho. He is married and has four children, a retired US military veteran, a licensed clinical professional counselor, and has over 14 years of ministerial leadership experience. Most of his writing focuses on manhood, leadership, relationships, and faith issues. His writing can be found at www.brucepagano.com and his podcast at www.foldingchairtheology.com.

True Wisdom: 2 Things It Isn’t & 7 Things It Is

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In the past I have struggled with understanding the difference between knowledge and wisdom. I knew things. I knew a lot of things. I prided myself on learning and knowing facts. I earned a few degrees along that way and that only added to the confidence of knowing. Even if I didn’t know specific details about a subject, I always knew enough that I was able to mash it together with other knowledge and make it sound like I knew what I was talking about. I thought all that knowledge meant I was wise. I thought that was enough.

Turns out that it is not enough. Over the last seven years I have been learning to follow Jesus better than I did my first thirty-one years. During that time God has taught me, through numerous circumstances, that I knew way less than I thought I did and that I was severely lacking in the wisdom department. He also taught me that true wisdom, His wisdom, is essential to fulfilling my roles as a follower of Jesus, a husband, a father, and a leader.

For clarity sake let’s differentiate between the two in meaning. Knowledge is the gathering of facts or information acquired through experience or education. Wisdom, on the other hand, is the prudent or sensible application of that acquired knowledge in any specific circumstance. When I see the definitions next to each other I realize that knowledge is good, but wisdom is preferable.

During those seven years God has continually brought me back to James 3:13-18. Maybe because the two things that I struggled with the most have been the two things God, through James, tells us that wisdom from God is not. In order to understand what true wisdom is we need to understand the things that create roadblocks to it. These are the two things that true wisdom is not and are in fact what James calls, “earthly, unspiritual, demonic.

True Wisdom…

…is not Jealous.

In verse 13 James calls wisdom meek. The quality of meekness is grounded in quietness and gentleness, which will be addressed in the second part of this article. Jealousy is opposed to and cannot occupy the same heart as meekness. Jealousy in a person causes them to focus on their discontentment and resentfulness at what others have, whether it is their possessions, influence, or even authority. Jealousy often insights one’s heart toward malice for the person that is the object of their envy. A heart consumed by jealousy resides in a world of strife and confusion and dampens your ability to prudently apply knowledge in a quiet and gentle way.

…is not Selfish.

Jealousy gives way to selfishness. When a person’s focus becomes their glory and their advantage, then their ability to wield wisdom in a way that is beneficial and God honoring no longer exists. If jealousy gives way to selfishness, then selfishness gives way to a myriad of other sins. Deceit, surrender to temptation and the like are all sewn by the desire to indulge one’s self. James calls this is the wisdom of devils. Selfishness shuts down your ability to be truly wise.

One of the most important things to understand about true wisdom is that it is a gift from God. James tells us that if we lack wisdom and ask God, who by His very nature “gives generously to all without reproach,” it will be given to us. True wisdom comes from God and consists of seven qualities.

True Wisdom…

…is Pure.

It is undefiled by the world and is the unadulterated Word of God residing in you. It does not allow known sin, but instead studies and meditates on holiness of heart and mind.

…is Peaceable.

Peace follows purity. Wise men preserve peace at all cost. They seek to create peace and to restore it where it may have been lost. In his commentary, Matthew Henry says that wise men seek to create and restore peace “In kingdoms, in families, in churches, in all societies, and in all interviews and transactions, heavenly wisdom makes men peaceable.”

…is Gentle

This is the meekness that James first mentions. Acted out it is far more than simply timid and quiet. Heavenly wisdom is not cruel or harsh and is slow to anger. It is not domineering, pompous or offensive in conversation. Heavenly wisdom maintains a gracious and controlled behavior toward others in a way that exhibits humility.

…is Open to Reason.

In a word it is persuadable. It seems counter-intuitive to suggest that wisdom can be persuaded, but in the context of heavenly wisdom, someone that is wise can be persuaded toward good and away from evil. We make mistakes and the wise person is open to the persuasion of the Word of God to influence their behavior and conscience.

…is Full of Mercy and Good Fruits.

True wisdom is full of and offers the same mercy that God extended to us. That God-extended mercy compels the wise one to do good works, relieve needs, forgive offenses and to do those as often as the situation presents itself.

…is Impartial.

True wisdom does not separate others because they are different. The impartiality of heavenly wisdom is that which does not pass judgment based on conjecture and does not seek to admonish others based on preconceived notions. It offers the same acceptance to everyone, regardless of differing conditions.

…is Sincere.

Heavenly wisdom is without deceit. It rejects craftiness and guile that the world counts as wise. It is genuine and wide-open, sound and unchanging, and dependable with itself.

Heavenly wisdom draws others to Jesus. This is the wisdom that I’m continually asking God to produce in me. This is the wisdom that produces wholeness and allows us to walk in the roles that God created us to in a way that honors and glorifies Him. This is the wisdom that helps us to sharpen each other. This is the wisdom from above.

If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him.

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The Lie in “Practice Makes Perfect”

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“Practice makes perfect,” right? We grow up being fed this idiom as the advice that will ensure our success. We’re told that no matter the skill, we are able to master it by simply repeating it over and over. We have taken this simple motivational saying and turned it into a life motto. But deep down we struggle with believing it is true. If it were true, then the American Idol audition episodes would not be as funny to watch. The truth is we know that we can’t be perfect, at anything, ever. But unfortunately so many of us still buy into this saying as an undisputable truth.

There’s a difference in wanting to do something well and needing to be perfect at it. One motivates you to continue to work hard and allows you to enjoy progress and success, even in the moments of failure. The other drives you to overreach in the area of practice, which often steals the joy of doing, creates burnout and causes feelings of never being “good enough.” When times of failure come; because they always do, even for professionals, or you meet the person that is better than you, it’s crushing. That often leads to more striving and more burnout or simply just quitting. Either way the potential for a defeated heart becomes greater and greater.

The Bible Doesn’t Necessarily Help

Unfortunately we’ve moved away from simply seeking proficiency toward seeking perfection. But, as previously mentioned, we know deep down that perfection isn’t attainable. Again unfortunately that doesn’t stop us. Sometimes it can seem like even scripture adds to this problem. Scripture like Matthew 5:48 only seems to feed our need for perfection. In that scripture Jesus actually says, “You therefore must be perfect, as your Heavenly Father is perfect.” There it is, be perfect.

We automatically assume that He’s telling us to be perfect in all things, rightly conclude that it is not possible while on earth and often either ignore it and continue on our Christian way, or discount Christianity (or at least the Bible) as a whole. But, as with much of scripture it isn’t that simple and when we take a single verse out of context, we do more damage than good.

Biblical teachers have shared a couple different thoughts on what Jesus is talking about here. He says this while giving a long sermon (called the Sermon on the Mount). During that sermon Jesus elevates much of the previous laws that the Jews had been trying to live by. He equates hate with murder, lust with adultery and tells them that it is not enough to not wish their enemies ill will, but instead they must actually love them. Then, right in the middle of it, He says to be perfect.

I’ve heard it suggested that He is telling us to be perfect in our intent to follow the law as He explains it. The idea is, as humans, we are incapable of being perfect in action, but our intent can be perfect. It is basically us repeating Paul’s cry that, “I have the desire to do what is right, but not the ability to carry it out.” I do believe that this is true. As we allow the Holy Spirit to sanctify and mold us into the likeness of Jesus, our intent to follow Jesus’ commands can be made perfect even though our ability may lack. But I’m not sure that’s what Jesus was talking about here.

Pursuit, not Perfection

Another way I’ve heard it interpreted is in the immediate context of what Jesus was talking about, specifically loving your enemy. The Greek word that Jesus used is different from other occasions when He said “perfect.” On this occasion the word means something closer to “mature.” If Jesus was saying to be perfect in the context of loving your enemy, then that changes the perspective on perfection. If this is true, Jesus is telling us to love perfectly; as the Father loves, so shall we. While that in and of it self is a hard task, if there is anything we ought to be practicing to perfection it is the ability to love. Jesus spends the few verses before v. 48 talking about how easy it is to love you friend, but the real defining factor of His follower is the ability to love their enemy. That is another blog for another time, but the good news in this is that He isn’t telling us that we need be perfect in all things.

That doesn’t mean we shouldn’t strive toward perfection. If we are pursuing Jesus we are moving toward perfection, but our goal is not perfection, it is Jesus; He is the prize, perfection is not. The best part is when Jesus talks about us being made perfect, as in whole and complete, He doesn’t say it to us, but instead during a prayer, He asks God that we, as a church, “may become perfectly one.” God never puts the onus on us to be perfect.

Practice for Pursuit

The truth is that we are not perfect and we can’t be on this side of eternity. Our flesh will continually war against our desire to do the will of God. We should strive to be perfect in the way that we love others. That should be the one area that we hold onto the idea that practice makes perfect. But, no matter how much we practice we won’t be perfect in every way it means to follow Jesus. We are going to fail. We are going to sin and fall short. We are going to be harsh with our children, upset our spouses, anger a friend, but God’s grace is sufficient for our imperfections. If He has that much grace for us, shouldn’t we have the same for each other and even for ourselves? It is in Him that we have the strength to keep on. Instead of holding onto “practice makes perfect” we would do better to view it as “practice breeds pursuit.” That means that as we repeat the things that Jesus modeled for us a desire is produced to pursue Him more.

Practice does not always make perfect, but it does bring us closer to the One who is.

Blog Potluck

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This last week has been slammed packed full of busy. Between job searching, planning a one year old little girl’s birthday party, and putting my oldest son of a plane so he can start his adulting, I haven’t had a lot of time for anything else.

I actually forgot it was Monday and almost forgot to post. While I do a a few articles in the pipe that I could post, I thought it would be fun to share articles from guys I’ve recently connected with and who’s stuff I started reading. And, being that it is Thanksgiving week, I figured a potluck of blogs was appropriate.

1. This first post is from November 12th, by author and speaker, Matt Ham. Matt is the Author of Redefining Rich and building a community at Your Whole Life Matters

Just Like Dad

My sons have recently developed a desire that has become quite frustrating.

Whether they’re going to school, getting ready for church, or simply playing outside, they want to dress just like their dad. They want their shoes to match or to wear the same color shirt. They want to imitate me down to the very last detail. [READ MORE]

2. This next article was posted on November 19, by writer and Cosmetology Instructor extraordinaire, David Mike. David is also writing a book about his time spent in the United States Disciplinary Barracks, Ft. Leavenworth, KS.

DAUGHTER AND FATHER

We have three daughters: 13, 11 & 3.  Everyone says “Just wait!” in regards to the Estrogen Armageddon that we are supposed to experience during their adolescence.  “Oh, you have all girls?” they say, “Boys are easier…”  Great, thanks!  So far with our girls we have had relatively no problems. [READ MORE]

3. This article was posted is by author and podcast host, Rocco DeLeo. Rocco is the author of Bullet Points and Buffalo Wings and host of And Dad Makes 7.  In addition to that, he’ll soon be co-hosting a new monthly podcast with me and Thomas Hogan, called The (G)odd Show.

WHAT IS THE PROBLEM WITH PRIDE?

One of my favorite authors, Podcaster, and just all around great guy, Matt Ham agreed to be on my show. Things are looking good for my growing platform.  In case you didn’t know, The And Dad Makes 7 Podcast [Click here to go to the Podcast Page] is starting to get awesome guests. Here’s my problem. My heart has a little rumble warning me that I my ego is getting out ahead of me just a little too much. [READ MORE]

Enjoy and I’ll see you on Cyber Monday!

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