Tag: Death

In Memory of Jesus

empty tombWe’re approaching that time of year when the obligation of a years worth of missed church prompts us to put our family in sundresses and slacks, load them into the car and head to the nearest, often most popular, church. It’s the time of year when even small churches get to experience an attendance boom. It’s the time of year that a lot of pastors focus a lot of attention on preparing for because of the potential for congregational growth. This Sunday, pastors will preach their hearts out about the death and resurrection of Jesus in an attempt to draw people into Jesus and eternity. It’s Easter!

Last week there was a knock on my door and when I answered it a lady in a nice spring hat, the kind of hat that you expect to see in a country church in Georgia, handed me a flyer. As she handed it to me she said, “We’d like to invite you to a memorial service for the death of Jesus.” At the time what she said didn’t even register and I said, “Thanks, I already have a church, but have a good day.” After closing the door and looking at the flyer, I saw that they were Jehovah’s Witnesses and what she said clicked, “a memorial service for Jesus’ death.” I think that’s how most people, especially those that aren’t Christians or even the “Christians” that only attend on Christmas and Easter, look at Easter; a memorial service for Jesus’ death.

I get to work at Arlington National Cemetery. I say “get” because it’s a really cool place to work. Aside from the honor of getting to work in a place where so many heroes have their final resting place, it’s steeped in history. Anyway, I get to work there. Every year they host an Easter Sunrise Service at the amphitheater at the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier. It’s this gorgeous, all marble, amphitheater on the back of the tomb. The service is huge, something like 2000 attendees. People come from all over the to attend. A few days ago my boss told me that last year he had spoke with a woman that traveled from Buffalo, New York to attend. He said she told him that the service was nice, but she “didn’t expect there to be that much ‘Jesus’ in the service.” WHAT? It’s a church service, on Easter. If there are ever a time you should expect to hear the name Jesus in church, aside from all the time, it’s on the days of His birth and His resurrection. But there it is. People don’t expect to hear Jesus in church anymore. Side note: that’s one of the reasons I’m convinced that church is for the believer. If people do come expecting to hear about Him, it’s in the form of a memorial service. For Christians, we have to be careful to not treat it as a memorial service. Easter is not a memorial of his death. Easter is the day that we acknowledge His resurrection & celebrate of His victory over death.

That’s not to say His death is inconsequential. On the contrary, the cross is essential to our faith. Without it there is no forgiveness of sin. It was on the cross that Jesus took on all of sin for all eternity. It was on the cross that sin was crucified and the debt of it was paid. It was on the cross that we we’re freed from our bondage to death. The cross is crucial, but it isn’t the end all. Likewise the tomb was important in the process. But, neither is it the focus of our faith. While the empty tomb plays an important role in our faith, it is not the center of it. The tomb was simply a launching point for the greatest event in all of eternity. It was the stage that would showcase a phenomenon that would change history forever. So, we ought to simply pause at the tomb. We pause to marvel and awe at the wondrous miracle that took place there. Then we are to run from it, but not in despair. We run in glad celebration. We run to other believers so that we can celebrate the splendor of the Good News that the tomb lay empty. We run to tell others that haven’t heard, so they might be brought into celebration with us.  Our faith has little to do with the tomb and everything to do with why it’s empty.

It’s empty because He lives. The cross without the resurrection is, essentially, the same thing that the Israelites had been doing for millennia; simply a sacrifice for sin. It’s the resurrection that changes everything. Forgiveness of sin is inconsequential if the end result is the same. Going to the grave without sin is still going to the grave. But, it’s the resurrection that changed that and that’s what we’re celebrating. On Easter we celebrate that “the same mighty power that raised Christ from the dead and seated him in the place of honor at God’s right hand in the heavenly realms” is made available to us. I’m actually glad that people feel obligated to attend church on Easter. It provides the opportunity for them what Easter is really about and provides us the opportunity to explain that to them. I still believe that the church gathering is intended for the believer, to prepare them for the work of the ministry (i.e. living life with others), and to celebrate Jesus, but I also know that we can’t get around the fact that unbelievers will come this Sunday and we should be prepared to preach the cross, Him crucified and why His resurrection matters.

Here’s links to the Easter story:

Jesus’ Trial
Jesus’ Crucifixion
Jesus’ Burial
Jesus’ Resurrection

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A Christian’s Only 2 Options for Dealing with Fred Phelps’ Death

Recently news was released that Fred Phelps, founder of the highly controversial Westboro Baptist Church, was “on the edge of death” in a hospice center in Kansas.  If you’re not familiar with Mr. Phelps and WBC’s work, here’s a LINK (here’s the Wiki).  To say that the way they present the Gospel of Jesus is perverse and maddening would be gross understatement.  It literally goes against every tenant of following Christ that He outlined in His teaching.  Sadly this couldn’t even be a discussion about what is considered “sin”, because the real issue is the hate and contempt that they use to deliver their message of condemnation and the repulsive way they portray MY God as a something He is not.  It used to make me angry that people might associate me, as a Christian, with this “church”, that is until I read an article by Justin Lee, Executive Director of GCN, titled “You Love Gay People? That’s Great. Prove It.”  In that article he confirms, what I’ve long hoped to be true, that gay people realize that people like those in Westboro Baptist are extremist and not really Christian.  (Quick side note:  This is a great article and gave some much-needed perspective to a lot of stuff I’ve been praying and thinking on.)

With that said I think it’s worth discussing what our Christian response to Fred’s impending death should look like.  As I see it, if you call yourself a Christians, a follower of the loving and forgiving God that the Bible declares (this doesn’t eliminate Him being just, that’s actually part of Him being Love), we really only have two choices in how we address Fred Phelps’ life and death.

1.  Forgive and pray.

Because this is Jesus “M.O.” it should be ours.  Our God, displayed in our savior as He hung dying on a cross, is in the business of forgiving and praying for those that condemn and reject Him.  I’m not suggesting that we are all, or even must be, at that place right this minute, but we should definitely be seeking to get to that place. That place is a place where forgiveness, prayer and love are our answers to hate.  Jesus was pretty clear when He said, “Love you enemy and pray for those that persecute you.”  To be fair, in this situation, forgiveness and prayer isn’t really an impossible decision for me.  Am I angry at what WBC says and does? Yes.  Am I angry at how they portray my Jesus and those that seek to truly follow Him? Yes, again.  Am I angry at WBC for driving away a group of people who already feel hurt by the Church and that Jesus wants to reveal His love to?  Another yes.  Are they persecuting me directly? No.  Can I forgive them and pray for them, even though I’m angry? Absolutely I can, but only because of Jesus.

2.  Not say anything.

This might actually be the best place to use the old adage, “If you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all.”  Or better yet, the golden rule, “So whatever you wish that others would do to you do also to them.” fits really well in this situation and in this case means, if you don’t want people being hateful toward you, then don’t be hateful toward them.  Honestly it’s tempting to spew back the same hate and contempt toward WBC that their words and actions have communicated for nearly a quarter century.  It’s tempting to want to bullhorn scream condemnation to such a misguided and destructive group of people; especially when they claim to serve the same God that I do.  It would also be easy to cheer Fred’s demise or protest his funeral as a way to snub WBC.  But it would only serve to blacken and harden your heart and draw you far from God.  Hate only ever begets more hate.  So, as a Christian, if you’re not able to forgive and pray for him, then the only other real option, if you claim to follow Jesus, is to not say anything.  I don’t claim to know what it’s like for someone you might know to have been directly hurt by WBC.  I imagine it’s an infuriating feeling to know someone you love suffered the hurt of such condemning words, especially in circumstances like mourning a lost loved one and having WBC show up.  I can’t conceive that anger or hurt.  If that is where you’re at, I’m sorry they hurt you.  All I know to do, from times I’ve been deeply hurt by another, is to seek out the counsel and prayer of other mature believers and then go to God in prayer.  Pray for comfort and guidance.  Pray for healing and peace.  God won’t abandon you in that pursuit.

To be clear, this is not a call to silence anyone’s anger.  As a Christian this type of behavior and hate should drive you to anger and you should voice that anger.  But anger becomes righteous or sinful with the actions that follow it.  Voice your anger, and then pray for Fred?  That’s righteous.  Voice your anger, and then picket his funeral with “God Hates Fred” posters?  That’s the same sin and hate as WBC.  If anyone should want to picket Fred’s funeral it should be those families of the soldiers whose funerals were protested and the gay community that was tormented.  But so many aren’t taking that stance.  In fact actor/director George Takei (best known as the Mr. Sulu on the original Star Trek – and for me at least, Kaito Nakamura on Heroes) posted this on his FB page.

George Takei on Fred Phelps

There is hope in this.

There’s one last thing I want to address based on a pretty good conversation that my wife and I had about this whole thing.  It might be tempting to entertain the thought that this may be God’s wrath or judgment poured out on Fred.  Whether this is God’s justice or not isn’t our concern; it may or may not be.  What I do know is that God’s wrath was poured out on His son as He hung on a cross, some 2000 years ago, to atone for our sins, ensuring that we never (if we choose) have to experience His wrath.  No one except Fred Phelps and God know what is happening in Fred’s heart while he lies in that hospice center.  Like it or not, as long as he’s breathing God can still draw Fred back and that’s between him and God.  Until you breathe your last, you’re never too far from God and that should be a relief to all of us.

What are your thought?  Is there another way Christians should or could respond?

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